This page isn’t meant to be a definitive authority. It’s meant as a quick reference for beings who want to flirt with me and would like to know how they may refer to me without needing to ask first. As such, some of these lists are most likely incomplete, and you are more than welcome to ask about any terms not listed here.

Pronouns

  • she/her

  • it/its

    • I’m still trying these out. Feel free to give these a go, especially if we’re closer

Names

  • Kyaa

  • Kyaade

  • Dokki

    • can be used in places where I go by the handle "0xDokki"

Honorifics

  1. dominant leaning

    • mistress

  2. submissive leaning

    • kitten

    • slut

    • toy

    • plaything

Misc

  1. acceptable genital terms

    • (girl-)dick

    • (girl-)cock

So why exactly does this exist?

People probably keep such pronoun pages for a variety of reasons. My pronouns and names arguably aren’t complex enough to really warrant this page on their own.

I did however recently find myself wondering, when flirting with cute beings on fedi, how they may like being referred to, and would’ve found a page like this one tremendously helpful.

In an effort to lead by example, I made this page. If you found it helpful, please let me know ✨